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T in the Park fans braced for rain
Festival-goers began arriving at the T in the Park site on Thursday to set up camp and they were joined by many more as the first full day of the musical extravaganza began. With a capacity of 85000 people each day, the event at Balado, near Kinross ...

T in the Park 2012: Stone Roses ready to return to second home and rock Balado
THIS is the one. The Stone Roses headline T in the Park tomorrow.

T in the Park 2012: Cher Lloyd vs Kaiser Chiefs
Review: Kicking off with two major Marmite bands, T know how to entertain, regardless of whether it's sadistic or pure pleasure.

T in the Park: Feeder cancel festival performance due to illness
The band were due to perform on the Radio 1/NME Stage, but had to cancel after Grant Nicholas came down with laryngitis.

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seanHerron2 RT @Georgia_Ford: If I was at t in the park and the camera went on me I wouldn't wave like a fucking bellend.

oreillyliam Watching Tinie Tempah at T in the Park, insane! definitely not the same watching it at home in bed

DitaRayRay I really am glad I'm not at t in the park, who would want to be stuck in a flooded tent right now? Festivals aren't really my thing..

CheckMyFlowww RT @Dannymcfly: Tomoro we iz at T in the park yo That’s the d-dawg in me

calbrightonxox really wanna go to T in the park!

nathanellard @TinieTempah smashed T in the park!! I say Tinie you say Tempah! #hellyeahh

g4l4xyd3f3nd3r RT @Dannymcfly: Tomoro we iz at T in the park yo That’s the d-dawg in me

GLNorth T in the Park looks so good this year. I wish I could have gone.

elleneyles RT @lovethescript_: omfg wish i was at T in the park sooooooo much!!

annedidomenico RT @Dannymcfly: Tomoro we iz at T in the park yo That’s the d-dawg in me

Erichardsonx i hate everyone that's at T in the park

stewarty_o9 Take it every man and their dug who isn't at T in the park is doing the same as me then? Sitting here depressed as fuck watching it? Haha

McguysBR RT @Dannymcfly: Tomoro we iz at T in the park yo That’s the d-dawg in me

thewhitespike @lahossner Jack is 13. My other boy Tom is at T in the Park, he's 17. How old are yours?

NickRussell91 Think it's fair to say Tinie Tempah just ripped it at T in the Park!!!!!! #Madness

Discussions

What is wrong with me? Malaria, Doxycycline (malaria prevention side effect tablets?) other? by LOVE Q: Please take the time to read everything I am worried. I got back from The Kurger National Park, about 3 days ago. I was there for about 10 days. As it is a Malaria area, I took Doxycycline malaria prevention tablets. I go for walks at night, because I like to listen to music, and have some (me) time, and I suppose a couple of mosquitos did bite me. I want to know if this is malaria symptoms and if so, why do I have symptoms if I took the tablets? If it is not Malaria symptoms, then could it be the Malaria prevention tablet side effects (I re-searched the side effects of Doxycycline, but the symptoms I have does not state that this is a side effect of Doxycycline.) If it not any of these then please state what it could be, because I only started showing these symptoms when I was in The Kruger National Park and when I got back from The Kruger National Park. Symptoms: - muscles and bones: I do not know exactly how to explain this or give a great explanation, but my muscles and bones or blood or something inside me does not feel right, about 2-3 days ago, my right leg was sore, it started to be slightly sore, but during the evening it progressed to be extrememely sore, so sore that it was difficult for me to walk (not anymore my right leg is fine now) that only lasted for about a couple of hours then it went away. Next morning I woke up, and my left knew (not leg) was sore, but not badly sore, just slightly, now both my knees under (I forgot or don't know what it is called, but it is half way in my leg, where my leg bends.) if I straighten that and straithen my leg, my right and left leg (just where that bending part is) gets sore, but when I fold my legs and do what I normally do they are fine. left foot of mine for the past 2 days, has been aching like mad, it feels like something heavy dropped on it, 1-2 days ago, it was so sore I could not really walk without feeling the aching in my left foot. Today it has not been so bad, but if I bend my left foot, it is sore, not badly, but it is sore. I really don't know if I am explaining it right because it is not like my legs and knees are in such pain, like I absolutly can not walk, and I feel so much pain, I don't feel so much pain, but it is a bit painful and something that I have not experienced before. Bones: my bones keep clicking (I don't know what it is called) like you know some people can put there fingers through eachother, bend them backwards and click there nuckles or whatever and it makes a noise, I have been noticing where ever my bones or muscles join (like in my fingers,my feet, my knee cap (I think that is what it is called) keeps clicking and making a noise, so much more now than before, it does not happen all the time, but happens quit a few times now today. Muscles and bones: my muscles and bones seem to be extra sensitive, if I slightly knock my arm on something, it feels like I hit it hard, or way harder than I actually did, today I hit my leg on a car door, but not hard or any where near hard, but it felt a lot harder than it actually was (I think) Like now I punched myself, about 5 minutes ago, (not hard) but now I can still feel tense in my arm, and it was not hard and I don't know if it has always been like this, unless I am imagining now, because I am alert that I have a problem so I look for thing, so maybe I did not notice it before, but it feels like it hurts harder than it should. my muscles also will get like an odd ach, for about 10 seconds example: my finger will be sore, but it would come suddenly and only last for less than a minute then it would feel fine again. (slightly sore, it is not like it is so painful that I scream or have to stop what I am doing) it is almost a bit harder than a pinch and it feels like it is my bone, it also happens like, in my knee, or arm. Pings and needles and "cold": I seem to be getting a slight pings and needles very easliy since I got back from The Kruger National Park, like I will just be sitting and my arm will start getting pings and needles, it is not like I am sitting on my arm, or sitting strangely, but it will come and it will not be like major pings and needles just slight, but that also only lasts like a minute and it does not come to often, it is not like I always have pings and needles, everytime I sit, but I am getting the odd pings and needles when I shouldn't, like I was walking on my legs and I felt like I had a bit of pings and needles. Like now, I am busy typing this and my thumb is slightly sore, it is so strange it is like my bones is not working properly. This only started happening in and when I left The Kruger National Park, could it be malaria, malaria prevention tablets (Doxycycline), tick bite (I do not know of any ticks biting me), or other? - I smoke, but I have started smoking like almost a year ago, so I doubt it is that, like really I do not think it is smoking, because I have never experi Like now my right arm is a bit sore and aching, but it will not last long, it will soon go away. It does not make sense why I have these sudden muscle problems and achs, it is not like it is in one place. Please do not tell me to go see a doctor, I will if it gets worse, and or maybe I will go anyway! I want advice and if anyone knows what I am talking about.

A: Kurt. YES, you could be experiencing some of the possibly ill effects of taking doxycycline and not due to possible malaria which could easily be diagnosed in a medical lab by examining a stained drop of blood from a finger-stick. All medicines may cause side effects, but many people have no, or minor side effects. Check with your doctor if any of these most COMMON side effects persist or become bothersome when using Doxycycline: Mild diarrhea; mild loss of appetite; nausea; vomiting. Seek medical attention right away if any of these SEVERE side effects occur when using Doxycycline: Severe allergic reactions (rash; hives; itching; difficulty breathing; tightness in the chest; swelling of the mouth, face, lips, or tongue; unusual hoarseness); bloody stools; chest pain; decreased urination; fever, chills, or sore throat; red, swollen, blistered, or peeling skin; severe or persistent diarrhea; severe or persistent headache; stomach pain or cramps; symptoms of liver problems (eg, dark urine, persistent loss of appetite, pale stools, unusual nausea or stomach pain, yellowing of the skin or eyes); throat irritation or pain; trouble swallowing; unusual bruising or bleeding; unusual joint pain; unusual tiredness or weakness; vaginal irritation or discharge; vision changes. This is not a complete list of all side effects that may occur. If you have questions about side effects, contact your health care provider. Call your doctor for medical advice about side effects. To report side effects to the appropriate agency, please read the Guide to Reporting Problems to FDA.

I used to be outgoing? What happened? by Q: Hi, when i was 9 years old i was really outgoing and confident and made friends really easily (i dont even remember how i became friends with them tbh) and i was friends with kids my age that lived around my area and i used to meet them at the park and go to they're houses almost everyday and they would come to my house. I was just really outgoing and confident! My old friends still live in my area but i never see them, i never talk to them :( I'm 14 now and i'm just not as outgoing & confident... i dont have that many friends because my best friends group drifted apart sadly so we are no longer a group of friends. :( I do have 1 friend though who was in that group and im still friends with them. There were two others in the group, 1 i dont talk to anymore because we had this small arguement and yeah i dont really want to be friends with her and the other friend made loads of new friends and became friends with other really outgoing people so she's got lots of friends now. So yeah, i dont really know how i stopped being friends with the people in my area actually - i think we just drifted apart and thats about it. I spend a lot of my time with my family, but thats ok cause i like them but its not the same as going out your friends that are the same age as you and having fun (you know what i mean?!) I've thought about asking random people on facebook if they'd like to go shopping or something but that just would seem desperate or creepy! I dont know what to do because this summer will be quite boring if i spend the whole time with my family! Ages ago, (at least 6 months ago) i went to the cinema with girls from my year and 3 of them are in my class(1 of them were in my best friend group that i told you about and she is still my friend) and we had loads of fun! I never really talked to most of the people that were there but i felt more confient and have so much fun! Im never confident at school so thats why i had never talked to them. But yeah, i loved being with new people and doing something fun outside school. Though after that i didn't really talk to them because i only saw them at school (where im not confident.) Thing is though, it was only a one off and its not happened since. I'd love to meet new people my age that i can become good friends with and i dont know how to do that when i only have 1 friend? Im sorry that it was so long! Advice would be appreicated! :) Please reply, thankyou! x

A: omg that just about explains my life with the age and the splitting of the friends! often times people become quiet or more shy when there is lots of change in their life so they are not yet as comfortible with how things are so they are quieter. for example if you move to a different school you will be quieter because you are not used to the things around you. also what you said your group of friends split up so you are not as comfterble with your new life so your brain is telling yourself to get used to the change and that is what makes you quiet. It may sound really odd but there is lots of wierd things connected to that but once you get used to the changes and your new lifestyle and gain more confidence with your new life changes you will become more outgoing like you once were believe me! And dont be afraid to speak out people will notice you and find you are a cool person and they will become good friends! I really hope i helped! Good luck!

Dogs are playing too much? by GRRR Q: My boyfriend and I recently fell on some hard times, my sister and her husband agreed to lets us stay in the guest house with our 1 y/o male-intact German Shepherd and our 2 y/o neutered Beagle mix. My sister has a 2 y/o spayed red she-devil (ok, she's about 30lbs and a mixed breed with a chestnut colored coat). When H.Appy (my Beaglex) and Chester the she-devil get together, they are INSANE. The guest house is out in the "backyard" and all the dogs get to go in the yard. When H.Appy & Chester are out there together they are wild, they don't listen, they break stuff, knock people over & refuse to be caught. They seem to be "magnetized" to each other. so...the not being "caught" thing. BOTH dogs will come, when the other is not around. H.Appy & Drex (GSD) love running in the woods & recall EVERY time... for a Beagle, he DOES recall... and won't chase smells. Chester also recalls, "most of the time" my sister oftens takes her to the dog park & she comes when called. We are at a loss... we have tried only letting one of them out at a time... but the moment the other knows he/she is outside, they don't stop screaming & wanting into the yard, digging at the door. I know it doesn't seem like a problem, but we think they are obsessed with each other. They could easily over heat, and really it's annoying us (mostly cuz they won't listen). Really, if we could get them to play with LESS enthusiasm, it would be great. Please, if you read this answer... with anything, advice ...something to help us..please respond. What can we do? I can't afford a dog trainer, but have plenty of time to do some training myself to help this problem... + my GSD gets along fine with them, but he sticks near me.

I always keep getting in trouble no matter how hard i try. help.? by Q: Basically me parents always yell at me for doing bad things. One time i was at the park w. my lil bro and i was always watching him and i got a little carried away with fun since it was summer and the sprinklers were on and I guess i didn't keep a good eye on him and didn't even notice how my dad came to the park and left with my bro and the stroller home. I panicked and then my dad came and yelled at me for not watching him. ever since then, my parents had low trust for me and whenever i try really hard to get them to not be all uptight by doing things around the house, they dont notice those things but find other things were i messed up. It's like i try and try harder but it never works out. It has actually come to the point where im not allowed to text. or watch t.v, or have a birthday party since my bday is coming up reallly soon. im not allowed to get any presents from anyone and my parents wont buy me anything either. it really sucks and i wish it would all just end,. becky- yupp :( tammy- welll for instance i forgot to wash the dishes ..when i woke up one day they was a MOUNTAIN of dishes and i had just finished eating cereal and i didnt wanna wash all of those dishes for someone because i didnt cause that mess. and another time i got spaced out and distracted so i didnt was two bowls and then my parents go crazy ape. mutant_Genome- i never ever cut myself or hurt anyone as you have suggested in the first paragraph, and as you said that doing chores doesn't regain trust i know that i try to do chores so that they wud think that im productive in some way. what is happening im more than sure is not medically inclined and i do not need medication. I'm trying to think about what i may be leaving out. Also another thing is that my parents always make me watch after my bro like im his mother and they arent his parents it gets really annoying you know? I mean im a kid too i need fun.

why does Linkin Park still get so much hate? by teh_beast Q: i think they are a good band. might be pretty simple, but they are powerful in my opinion. nobody liked A thousand Suns because it wasn't similar to their first few albums. but i thought the immaturity and angst is what so many hated about early LP. and Thousand Suns is none of that. isn't it a prettty good album?

Can Police Legally use Forced Catheterization to obtain a urine sample for possible Marijuana use in The U.S.? by Q: June 7th, 2012 Just when you thought MADD’s "War on Drunk Driving" had reached the limits of sanity…. - Man Sues Police Over ‘Forced Catheterization" Salt Lake City, UT. May 24 - A 22-year-old college student has filed an $11 million federal lawsuit against police in central Utah, claiming they forced a catheter in him after he refused to consent to a search for marijuana… “I don’t think it’s right what they did,” Cook told FOX 13 on Thursday. “I’m pretty sure they’re doing it to other people. They made me feel like an animal.” The former Snow College student said he was smoking cigarettes with friends back in 2008 when police approached their car, parked on a roadside in Ephraim. His lawsuit, filed in February in U.S. District Court, claims police searched the young men and their vehicle. The police claimed they could smell marijuana, but could not find any during a search, Cook claims. After a K-9 still could not find marijuana, an officer popped the trunk and found a glass pipe inside. Cook claims the officers then asked him to drive his friend’s car to the police station. “If somebody’s under the influence of marijuana, the last thing you want to do is put them in a car and drive,” said Cook’s attorney, Lindsay Jarvis. “That goes against every statute the state has, and so that’s where it gets a little frustrating and it gets out of control from there.” Cook said he believed that after driving his friend’s car to the police station, he thought he would be free to go. Instead, he was put in a holding cell and officers demanded he take a drug test. “I asked for an attorney because I didn’t know if this was right what they were doing,” he said. “Once I did that, they said ‘We’re getting a search warrant so we’re going to have your urine by the end of the night.’ “ Police obtained the warrant, his lawsuit claims, and they drove him to Sanpete Valley Hospital. After being told that a catheter would be inserted into his body to obtain urine, Cook said he said he would consent to giving a sample but became “nervous” and could not urinate. “The nurse told (an officer) to hold my shoulders, so he held my shoulders and then the nurse undid my pants, wiped me down with iodine and put the tube in me,” Cook told FOX 13. “And then they took me to jail.” Cook was arrested for marijuana possession and resisting arrest. Jarvis said the resisting arrest charge was for refusing to give a urine sample. She accused police of “bullying” people with forced catheterization. “This is being used as a punishment to try and get them to comply,” she said. “Rather than employ a simple blood test, they’re forcibly catheterizing these people.” Forced catheterization is a relatively new issue in the courts. A similar lawsuit was filed by a woman in 2008 against police in neighboring Sevier County. It was dismissed after a federal judge ruled the officers acted without malice and their intent was to “bring her to justice” for the charges she was facing at the time… “I want them to be accountable for what they did,” Cook said. If you think this incident in 2008 is an isolated one, you may be surprised to discover that forced catheterization for urine samples is a growing DUI law enforcement technique. See, for example, Catheter Forced Up P enis After DUI Arrest (Washington) and DUI Cops Inspired by CIA? (Indiana). Forced draws of blood with syringes have already become a staple in the "War" – including draws with syringes used by the cops themselves: Taking Blood by Force, Forced Blood Draws by Cops Spreading and Blood Draws in the Backseat by the Dashboard Light.

Problem with Aussie's herding instinct..? by Jennifer Q: Just curious if anyone has dealt with something similar or has any suggestions on how to correct this behavior. I've got two Aussies and I know that they're herding dogs.. I know this is just in their blood. My male (Chance) doesn't really have much of a problem, but the younger female (Ryleigh) does exhibit more herding behavior. For example, she's always quick to start herding children that are running around but she stops immediately when I give her a firm no and is easily redirected to playing with a toy, or another dog. The main problems is in relation to Chance. When I play fetch with Chance, Ryleigh will chase after Chance (not the ball..) and will bite on his neck and face while he's running the ball back. It is very hard to get her to stop while she's in the act, and I don't know how to stop the behavior all together. Chance gets very annoyed and sometimes a little hurt (no blood or anything.. she's not being vicious) and so I'd like to figure out how to get her to stop. As of right now I end up having to tie her to me while I play fetch with Chance. She even does this at the dog park with plenty of other dogs to play with (even our other dog, and American Eskimo). She only chases Chance when he's playing fetch, no other dogs.. does anyone have any suggestions for Chance's sake..?

i don't know what to do for my 2 year old birth day party. Any ideas? by Q: We live in a little apartment and just have 2 relatives in town: my 2 sisters in law that have no kids. We don't have so many friends, and the good ones we have,just a couple have kids. Also we don't feel comfortable inviting all the kids from our church community. Plus this this summer has been so hot that thinking of throwing a party at the park overwhelms me. We would like to keep it nice and simple. I don't know what to do.... sometimes I think in not doing anything at all. Any ideas?

I really want to get into MARYLAND-COLLGE PARK? by chadol4962 Q: I applied for university of Maryland college park most of my friends got an acceptance from maryland but i havent gotten yet I don;t think i am going to get in. I really wanna get in Maryland is there any way that I can show the admission office my desire to go to UMCP?

Am I a Skater? or a poser? by Q: I am 16 years old, I started skating last summer with one of my friends and I went to the skate park and stuff to practice, I have an Element skateboard, but I wasn;t the best I had trouble with dropping in I could ollie, I could ride down ramps and I would pump around in a half pipe. Later on I decided to buy a longboard I had Globe, then I upgraded and got Sector 9, I can ride fast down hills, I have sliding gloves for sliding, I can early grab, and Ive been improving for a while, I started longboarding in september and october then i got an injury and couldnt skate till march, and I started longboarding again and now its summer i wanna go back to the skate park Ive been practicing my ollie while riding and Ive been landing it and longboarding is all good. Im just wondering I feel like Im not as good sometimes when I watch vids on youtube, I dont wanna be a poser and keep practicing and trying to improve and i also went to a longboarding even race in new york city at central park which was sick, but would I be considered a skater im trying to improve but I dont wanna be a poser.

A: Stop worrying about everyone else around you and just be yourself. If you like skateboarding don't worry about those skating around you just focus on getting better trust me no one is going home at night and thinking obsessively that your some kind of poser.

Don't you think that 2012 is a golden year ? by Q: MCR are preparing for their new album, BFMV and Paramore are in the studio now recording their new album and Linkin Park just released an awesome album that I think it's their best :) BQ: what is your favorite album of 2012? BQ2: in which year do you think the best albums were released??

Will my boyfriend love me less if he sees me in a bikini? by Q: My boyfriend and I are going to Six Flags in a couple days. While we're there we plan on going to the water park. I am EXTREMELY self-conscious about my body. I weigh about 118 lbs (I'm 5'4'') and I have size A cup boobs, an ugly butt that's not very round, chubby legs (although they have a lot of muscle too), some cellulite, and love handles which make me look huge, especially compared to my boobs. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 9 months, and he says he loves me just the way I am, but it's really hard to believe him with the hundreds of girls out there that he looks at who are perfect compared to me. I'm deathly afraid of being in a bikini in front of him, and there will be plenty of perfect looking girls for him to compare me to. I rarely show him parts of my body that will be exposed in my bathing suit. He's seen me in one a year ago and said I looked fine, but I think I've changed a bit since then. I've been dieting and have lost some weight, but it's a slow process and I didn't lose enough weight in time. Will he love me less if he sees how I look in a bikini?

I'm embarrassed to be seen in a bikini by my boyfriend? by Q: My boyfriend and I are going to Six Flags in a couple days. While we're there we plan on going to the water park. I am EXTREMELY self-conscious about my body. I weigh about 118 lbs (I'm 5'4'') and I have size A cup boobs, an ugly butt that's not very round, chubby legs (although they have a lot of muscle too), some cellulite, and love handles which make me look huge, especially compared to my boobs. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 9 months, and he says he loves me just the way I am, but it's really hard to believe him with the hundreds of girls out there that he looks at who are perfect compared to me. I'm deathly afraid of being in a bikini in front of him, and there will be plenty of perfect looking girls for him to compare me to. I rarely show him parts of my body that will be exposed in my bathing suit. He's seen me in one a year ago and said I looked fine, but I think I've changed a bit since then. I've been dieting and have lost some weight, but it's a slow process and I didn't lose enough weight in time. Will he love me less if he sees how I look in a bikini? *I put this question in men's health to get answers from a man's perspective*

am i cursed or blessed? by Q: i'm in my late-20s, and i've done the following: surf in cali, skydive numerous times, gone shark cage diving in Hawaii, traveled to Egypt, China, Greece, France, Australia, etc. (like 20 countries) plus almost all the national parks in 45 U.S. states, scuba diving, skiing in Utah. I'm not rich but I don't have any debt and worked for some great companies in the past... However, i have no siblings, a strong extended family, and few but very close friends.... i didn't do all those things by myself...well, i guess most of them i did do just me....basically, it was like, "Well i'm alone and bored. at least if i do these things i won't be bored, which is as bad as being alone". =O

A: You are blessed more than you can comprehend. If you get bored being alone, get a dog. Dogs are very healing.

Help With My Story! Ten Points!? by Q: I need new ideas, advice and/or opinions on my story. Also, I'm stuck This could be just the beginning of my story or I could have wrote most of it but don't know how to end it. I want something tragic to happen towards the end but I want it to end happy. HELP ME, PLEASE! When Ethan was 5, 4 year old Olivia moved into the house down the road. They met and became best friends. They spent all their time together and even experienced their first day of school and on together. They continued to be best buds throughout elementary school. When middle school came, they reached puberty and began to fall apart but they still were good friends. When Junior High came, their friendship fell apart. Ethan became one of the most popular kids in the school and Olivia was one of the smartest and didn't have many friends... she was more mature than most kids their age. They didn't talk for three years. Their senior year came and they had English together. The teacher made them be partners for a big assignment. They studied at the park together and had a blast. The next day, the hot new girl from school told him to come over next weekend for a "fun night". He said maybe and then the next day, he studied with Olivia again. There was a movie playing that they really wanted to see and Ethan talked Olivia into seeing going and seeing it because she never did anything fun and she had so much fun. They did their presentation at school that they'd been working up to. They got an A and Ethan picked Olivia up and jumped up and down, shouting of excitement That night, Olivia went to Ethan's house and told him that she missed him all those years and spending all that time together lately made her realize that she's in love with him. Ethan shut her off and thought that they were too different. He ended up leaving her hanging and went to the hot girls house, crystal. As the moment was getting heated and Crystal kissed his body, he realized that he was in love with Olivia too and Olivia was the only girl that read him like a book and didn't care about popularity. By the time Ethan got to Olivia's house, she............... that's what i need help figuring out with. i just need help, advice, opinions or anything, what would you do with it?

Should I call the cops on my neighbor? (illegal activity involved!)? by Q: Ok last year my neighbor's shot off fireworks and one of them "tiped over" and shot into my yard, almost burning my house down if I hadn't had the hose near by. This year there are restrictions and you cannot shoot off fireworks due to the north park fires in colorado. And he might still do it. Should I call the cops if he does it? what would be the consiquences for this? I dont want it to be a dick I just dont want it to happen again. and if he does, can I remain anonymous if I call the cops?

Harassment and mischief and potential vandalism on my property. What would YOU do i? by Q: So on Monday night I heard thumps on my wall as I was on the computer at 1:40-ish AM. I looked outside and saw two boys hiding behind a fence (they looked about 16-17). After a bit of hiding they both got up and left. I didn't recognize either of them. I then went outside to check the damages (I thought they egged my home) and couldn't find a thing. On Tuesday night it rained so I didn't think they would be out. On Wednesday night I caught them walking down the street adjacent to my home. I felt nervous but did nothing. That was once again around 1:40-ish. They also did nothing. Thursday night they threw a cup filled with ketchup at my stucco wall. It splattered all over. No one noticed when it happened apparently, we were all asleep. My dad says he woke up when he heard the doorbell ringing at 1:50 AM last night. I called the cops today because I feel like this is ongoing harassment. They showed up and took a statement from me and said that they will see what they can do. They might send a patrol car around at 1-2 AM just to see if they run into them. Friday night I decided to stake out. My friend was helping me out. He was keeping an eye on the back (since they attacked from there) and I was watching the front. At about 12AM I saw a car parked beside the house facing mine. I thought I saw people moving in there so I kept an eye on it for a bit. It seemed to be an old dark blue car. The car soon drove off. I'm guessing IF that was the vandals that they saw me. My friend and I stayed until around 3. We saw nothing but a few cars driving by. Something did arouse our suspicions though. What we saw was another blue car roll in (not sure if it was the same one) in front of my house. There were a bunch of young guys in the car who fit the description (big shirts, baseball caps, hoodies, basically "swag") of the guys I saw. They parked there and talked for a bit whereupon one of them got out and walked towards my house, he was holding something I couldn't see. I thought he was gonna get my house but he simply got into another car parked in front of the tree in our yard and drove off. It could have been the neighbour I suppose. I never saw him or that car after that. As for the blue car containing some other kids, my friend chased after them for a bit (casually of course) until they disappeared. We stuck out for another hour and a half or so until we met up in his car to exchange information. Then they came back. They drove by us (I guess they saw us) and disappeared again, we chased them for s very little bit. We got some specifics about the car but not the license number. Nothing happened after that. Saturday night I staked out and nothing happened. Sunday night, nothing happened wither. And here we are. I'm not sure if they will come tonight, but I feel increasingly paranoid and anxious. This isn't even a huge deal though but I'm still afraid that it will escalate into something very serious. I may plan of staking out again. I already called the police on Friday and they filed a report on it but I can't really call them about the blue car cause we never saw them do anything. I still feel like I need to catch them in the act and get their license number. What would you do in my position? Am I giving it too much attention as it is? How could I possibly put an end to all of this? I'm not sure who they are or why they are targeting my house. I don't even know if they are coming back or not. Do you think they are still coming back? I thought they were actually doing something of values (partying, in the terms of teens) but since it was the weekend but during the summer weekends are meaningless. I have my first day of summer school tomorrow so I need to sleep early though. But I'm nervous because their most serious attacks have been while I was sleeping. Any advice would be helpful.

13 year old male, need some help with a disagreement? by Q: NO OFFENSE TO ANYONE , JUST SOME OF MY POLITICAL VIEWS. **********************************************************************************************************************Well, this problem has happened at the end of the school year, I haven't got a chance to ask this on yahoo yet. So, in class, a remark was made by the teacher. She claimed that the United States was the so called big brother of the world. I questioned this. She started babbling about protecting international rights and citizens, but I did not want to seem like the attacker in the conversation, so I played dumb and yet again questioned her statement, asking inquisitively. She said that the US has the power to help other people exept for their own, and I replied that the nation should start working on creating funds to help their OWN citizens, because what she said was not true, and I brought everything that she said back to her. I reminded her that 650 billion dollars of our taxes are used to profit military spendings and to collect more weapons to slaughter innocent children in third world countries. Silence was in the room. My classmates are stuck now. I was told one of them, QUOTE! "I didnt know who to believe! You or the teacher!" I did not take this as a sign of offense. I accepted it as a confirmation that western media has completely destroyed the common sense of people and children in their borders, and that my generation has gone to crap. The teacher said, "Anyways, back to the lesson." We were learning about the Spanish American war, and how the US became a world power. (Im a straight A student, btw) At the end of the day, the weekend arrived. I went to the park with some of my closest friends, that had protected me and my thoughts since we met each other. We are all the same when it comes to political thinking, and at lunch, we discuss current problems in the world. So, at the park, we are confronted with some imbeciles from our class that actually have a clue when it comes to politics, but they are on the other side. (NATO, EU, Western nations, basically.)They enjoy verbal aggression, we do not. We get attacked several times, defending ourselves with cold replies that politics can only be discussed with mature people who do not intend offense to the person he disagrees with, yet for people who want to destroy the problem and develop a strong relationship with everyone, creating world peace. They start being physical. Shoving begins. We do not return the attacks, because they might frame us as being the attackers. We flee the park. We are tormented because of our nationalities in school, until the year ends. So, in the end, none of our friends are angry or willing to fist fight, but tired of them and do not want to report to a techer because it will be a sign of weakness, so what do I do? I havent told anyone at all, so I am keeping this anonymous. If you are wondering, our nationalites are Russian, Serbian, Greek, Armenian, Ukranian, and Vietnamese. There are 2 Serbs and 2 Russians, and the others are the only ones that are not in a group. THANKS TO EVERYONE WITH MATURE AND PROFFESIONAL ANSWERS, THEY ARE GREATLY APPRECIATED. I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST THE US! I LIVE IN THIS NATION AND RESPECT IT! PLEASE DO NOT LEAVE RUDE ANSWERS CALLING ME A BAD PERSON!

A: The fact it is acceptable for 13 y.o. in US to be dumb as a door nail, and completely ignorant of the world outside his neighborhood, facebook profile or state (in case of those really really smart ones) doesn't mean you should attack the kid for actually knowing where he came from and where he lives now, and knowing how politics today work. Your teacher is just one of the many brainwashed Americans who actually believes in what CNN sells them. My only advice would be never to let them harm you, in any way or make you stop thinking for yourself, and act as another US made clone...you are all by far superior to those spoiled brats and sob-s...You did not come there to fight, but to do something good with your lives. The bullies will continue to do it until they turn 18 and then they will assume they can take on the more serious enemy and enlist for some mercenary warfare abroad, especially if they believe they are doing the right thing,which they stopped doing around 1945...And then they return in a plastic bag, a wheelchair or with newly found mental disorder, US army is good at naming new syndromes. Reporting to teacher is not a sign of weakness, but a smart thing to do..Remember it is not Russia,Greece or Serbia but US and that is their turf and their rules...They choose those weaker then them or fewer in number to bully. I can only imagine what would happen to spoiled Americans on the streets of Belgrade, Thessaloniki or Nazran. They would be warmly welcomed like this http://shop.oaza.rs/user/include/011/images/cat/grobari-art.jpg https://encrypted-tbn0.google.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSofm6g9tyLeZbcDrG7a_--_nprKTkZwqNUS4X2_oKySiig1cx_

Is he living a double life? I moved 300 miles for this? by Q: My long distance bf and I have been dating a year today. Last week, I moved to a town 50 miles from where he lives (he lives in a rural area, and he suggested I move to his college town for my daughter's sake because of the schools there). He has been very strange all year - lots of strange red flags, including not introducing me to his family or replying, "I just do not bring girls home until I'm sure about them" when I mention meeting the parents. He left my house yesterday morning to go to "work" (we still live apart). I didn't hear from him all day, and then I bumped into him at Target in the town I live in. He had 2 little boys walking with him - about 5 years old I'd guess. I called out to him, and he smiled, came over to me and said he was babysitting. He said he saw my car in the parking lot and asked if I'd be home later because he may stop by. I was sooooo confused. Why was he in my town?? Why was he babysitting and for whom here in this town? So, I asked him on the phone later. He said they were his ex fiance's kids and they were visitng their grandmother, who asked him to watch the boys. I knew already that he had to go to counseling to get over his bi-polar ex fiance and the loss of these kids he'd become attached to, so why is this contact still going on with her? Ugh. He said he loves me and doesn't want to lose me. But I told him it was over. Then he texted and called at 3:20 this morning. The text said he was having an anxiety attack and his heart was hurtning and he was so sorry that he'd hurt me, but wants to work things out. I feel he's living a double life or something. It now makes sense that his eharmony profile said he was 10 years younger than he was and that it also said he lived in this town, not the one 50 miles away. When I confronted him about that months ago he said his friend must have mistakenly put that there (his friend apparently posted his profile for him?) I'm so confused... Why is he fighting to stay in a relationship with me?

Moved closer to long distance bf and boy did I get a shock? by Q: My long distance bf and I have been dating a year today. Last week, I moved to a town 50 miles from where he lives (he lives in a rural area, and he suggested I move to his college town for my daughter's sake because of the schools there). He has been very strange all year - lots of strange red flags, including not introducing me to his family or replying, "I just do not bring girls home until I'm sure about them" when I mention meeting the parents. He left my house yesterday morning to go to "work" (we still live apart). I didn't hear from him all day, and then I bumped into him at Target in the town I live in. He had 2 little boys walking with him - about 5 years old I'd guess. I called out to him, and he smiled, came over to me and said he was babysitting. He said he saw my car in the parking lot and asked if I'd be home later because he may stop by. I was sooooo confused. Why was he in my town?? Why was he babysitting and for whom here in this town? So, I asked him on the phone later. He said they were his ex fiance's kids and they were visitng their grandmother, who asked him to watch the boys. He's had to go to counseling to get over his bi-polar ex fiance and the loss of these kids he'd become attached to, so why is this contact still going on with her? Ugh. He said he loves me and doesn't want to lose me. But I told him it was over. Then he texted and called at 3:20 this morning. The text said he was having an anxiety attack and his heart was hurtning and he was so sorry that he'd hurt me, but wants to work things out. Is there any reason (other than I love him and he's always been supportive and helpful to me) that I should try and work on this with this guy? I feel he's living a double life or something. It now makes sense that his eharmony profile said he was 10 years younger than he was and that it also said he lived in this town, not the one 50 miles away. When I confronted him about that months ago he said his friend must have mistakenly put that there (his friend apparently posted his profile for him?) I'm so confused... Why is he fighting to stay in a relationship with me?

A: This sounds way too suspicious. Lies are bad news and he seems to have a chronic lying problem. Don't put up with him saying things about panic attacks.. maybe he does have them, but maybe he is trying to get you to feel sorry for him so he can get off the hook about being dishonest. Lying about being 10 years younger is a pretty big one, but considering the more important things he's lied about like the kids??? I don't know. Use your head, stay cautious, and don't let him manipulate you. Use your own eyes and if you see something that makes you uncomfortable, trust your judgement. The most important thing is that you and your daughter are both safe and happy first... This just sounds really weird. Considering its long distance and you haven't met his family, remember he could be anyone... It's easy to lie online or long distance.

How to approach this - I think he's living a double life? by Q: My long distance bf and I have been dating a year today. Last week, I moved to a town 50 miles from where he lives (he lives in a rural area, and he suggested I move to his college town for my daughter's sake because of the schools there). He has been very strange all year - lots of strange red flags, including not introducing me to his family or replying, "I just do not bring girls home until I'm sure about them" when I mention meeting the parents. He left my house yesterday morning to go to "work" (we still live apart). I didn't hear from him all day, and then I bumped into him at Target in the town I live in. He had 2 little boys walking with him - about 5 years old I'd guess. I called out to him, and he smiled, came over to me and said he was babysitting. He said he saw my car in the parking lot and asked if I'd be home later because he may stop by. I was sooooo confused. Why was he in my town?? Why was he babysitting and for whom here in this town? So, I asked him on the phone later. He said they were his ex fiance's kids and they were visitng their grandmother, who asked him to watch the boys. He's had to go to counseling to get over his bi-polar ex fiance and the loss of these kids he'd become attached to, so why is this contact still going on with her? Ugh. He said he loves me and doesn't want to lose me. But I told him it was over. Then he texted and called at 3:20 this morning. The text said he was having an anxiety attack and his heart was hurtning and he was so sorry that he'd hurt me, but wants to work things out. Is there any reason (other than I love him and he's always been supportive and helpful to me) that I should try and work on this with this guy? I feel he's living a double life or something. It now makes sense that his eharmony profile said he was 10 years younger than he was and that it also said he lived in this town, not the one 50 miles away. When I confronted him about that months ago he said his friend must have mistakenly put that there (his friend apparently posted his profile for him?) I'm so confused... Why is he fighting to stay in a relationship with me?

A: People are selfish...just cause he might be happy in one relationship doesn't mean he won't seek out happiness somewhere else....too many red flags especially about the parents..maybe not for the first couple months if that was he reasoning but a year is just to long to still be using that excuse and for him not to be telling you about his ex and what he has goin on in his life.....don't be his ixtra...search for someone who wants you to be their life and include u in every aspect. Don't stick around outta guilt.

We are going to San Antonio TX in a few days and want to explore the city. What is the best way to do this? by Q: We are driving but don't really want to pay a lot for parking. Can we park at one location and walk or catch a bus? I'm sure a taxi ride is way to expensive. We have never been and aren't sure what to do. We are traveling with a 13 year old, and 5 year old and would like everyone to be able to do something they will enjoy. I know for sure I would like to see the River Walk and Tower of Americas and the Alamo. Also would like to know where the best places to eat would be.Any tips or recommendations would be appreciated. Thanks in advance.

A: The River Walk, the Tower of the Americas and the Alamo are all within walking distance of each other. Park at RiverCenter Mall...it's covered parking which will keep your car cooler. The mall itself is nice, but he best thing about it is, you walk out one door and you're on the River Walk. You walk out another door and around the corner, and there's the Alamo! On the way to the Alamo, check out the lobby of the beautiful old Menger Hotel, rumored to be haunted. Take the river boat tour to get a feel for the history of San Antonio, and to see some places you'd like to explore. There is a nice water garden on the River Walk, as well as a multitude of restaurants and shops. Eat at Casa Rio at least once...it was one of the first restaurants on the River Walk and is kind of a tradition. Also close by the River Walk is the Institute of Texan Cultures, a really interesting museum. La Villita is well worth a visit, as is the Buckhorn Hall of Horns. There are double decker tour buses downtown that you can jump on and off. The San Antonio VIA bus line is really inexpensive, and schedules are available just about anywhere. Also worth seeing in San Antonio are the Zoo and the San Antonio Botanical Gardens. There are many excellent museums, and of course Sea World and Six Flags Fiesta Texas. In fact, there are so many things to do in San Antonio that you really need to visit their website so you don't miss anything! Enjoy your trip!

My dad kinda gets on my nerves at times...? by Q: Since I was little he always used to scream at me for everything. He used to throw me and hit me really hard and things like that, and he used to hit my mom, but that stopped when I started talking to the school phsycologist and she suggested we go to family court. Then we sent him to an anger management class. He stopped hitting us but he still screams at us for everything. He treats my mom like she's his daughter, and that isnt ok. He yells at me for everything. And he always tells me that I have an attitude when I don’t. (when he says this he means I am getting angry and rude at the particular moment, and most of the time I’m not) Its super annoying. I also hate it when he calls me and I say yes, then he doesnt say anything. Yes? Yes?? YES??? I would say, and then assume he doesnt want anything anymore, so i continue what i was doing. The he yells "WHEN I CALL YOU, YOU COME HERE!!!!!!!!!!" It annoys me to hell. Last week when my dad took my friend, her sister, and I to the beach, i was packing lots of snacks and he said i was buying friends. I wasnt. Then he began to yell. Then my mom came to the door just as we were leaving and asked if we needed the big umbrella because it was so sunny. I said yes, and he said no and began to yell at me about packing unnecessary stuff. He ruined the trip to my friends house. Then later that day, we were walking to the beach from the faraway parking we got (we live in NY - the city where parking is rare.). It was really crowded, and we were crossing the street. I fell a little behind them because they were lots of people in front of me. My dad took my arm and gave me a sharp pull. It was like he wanted me to walk on top of the people. I could tell my friend noticed that, but she acted like she didnt notice. So i acted like it didnt happen. But it was rude and embarrassing on my dad's part. Yesterday was his latest excursion. My mom almost registered me for a sports camp, but i said I didnt want to go. He began yelling and saying i'll ungrateful and i dont appreciate anything. I just didnt want to go to the camp!!!!! My mom understood that i didnt want to go and why because she understands everything. I freaking love my mom for that. He also yellled at me because i didnt want to take step dancing. (i just dont like it!!) In the midst of his yelling i said that I was just tired of all of this. Then he said "well if you're tired of this then why dont you open the door and leave the car?" (We were in the car because we were visiting the camp) I looked at him like WTF are you saying. And a few minutes later he said “I know you don’t talk those girls in school like you talk to us. And you think you know everything” First of all I don’t talk to my parents rudely (most of the time), but if they’re wrong they’re wrong. And If I have to talk to the girls rudely, then I have to. And I tell him that ALL THE TIME, and he just says “yeah right” which just makes me explode. “I know my own daughter” he also says. I’m like No you f*cking don’t. And I never acted like I knew everything anyway. That also makes me want to punch something. (not a person or anything – I’m not violent. Maybe a just a pillow.) Then later yesterday, he was trying to print something and the printer didn’t print. He began to yell at my mom and I calling us destructive and all. (The printer just needed some damn paper). Then he screamed to me “I blame you.” And in my head I’m like “STOP FUCKING BLAMING ME FOR EVERY FUCKING THING THAT GOES WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!” My mom stuck up for me, and told him it was her fault. (it was but that’s ok). My mom got really mad, but she didn’t say anything to him, because my mom and I both know it just creates war. He's still mad at me today for the camp thing and is being super bitchy. When he's angry, which, belive me, is alot, he screams at me for the tinyest things. He came from work today and stood outside the door, waiting for me to give him the dog to walk, as usual. I give him the dog, and he always gives me his work bag and whatever else he has in his hand. Today he gave me his bag and water bottle. I took the bag and was closing the door, because i didnt notice he had the water bottle to give me too, but he pushed the door and stuck the water bottle at me. The door hit me. I took the bottle without saying anything. Then, I put his bag and water bottle where i always put it, on the floor leaning against the table leg. Thats not where he usually puts it, but i put it there every day and he moves it to the door. But today, he began screaming at me for putting it there. So, I put the bag at the door and turned around to put his water bottle in the kitchen. Then, he began to lecture me on my horrible attitude and how it wont get me anywhere (he wasnt lecturing me nicely btw. he was yelling). I didnt even have a freaking attitude. I just turned around like a normal person and walked to the kitchen and he began to yell. Then I was like "What did I do??" And he said sarcastically "You never do anything". Then i said "Can you stop being sarcastic and just tell me what i did?" He began to scream that he was the boss and not to tell him what to do. That was like an hour ago. Now, precisely 30 mins ago, he called me upstairs to listen to the messages on the landline and tell him what it said (he didn’t know how to get into the whole message system because mom never explained to him the password and everything – its kind of complicated). I was listening to the messages with a serious face and he said “Why are you with such a face? Who are you mad at? Me?” “I’m not mad at anyone,” I lied. I didn’t want any war. I think he told me to either smile or have a better face but I don’t remember lol. So I smiled sarcastically, then put on my serious face again. I was extremely annoyed. Now don't get me wrong, l love my dad (at times), but he has that attitude that will embarrass me or my mom a nywhere and in front of anyone, and it really ruins the whole day. Its really annoying and gets me really angry. I'm 13 and i cant leave the house. What should I do?? Its getting really annoying. I’m tired of it. It’s getting on my last nerve. And the thing about me is, I don’t complain about things very often, but this is just IT. I’m annoyed. I’ve thought about suicide and leaving a note to my dad saying “And I bet you’ll still call me ungrateful.”, but God said not to kill ourselves. That would be tempting God. And there won’t be anyone to help my mom. I would get out with friends more but I don’t have any. I did, but then they all left me for someone else, and I don’t know why. They’re horrible. So what should I do? I know this is really long, and thanks soooooooooo much if you’ve gotten this far, but I really need to know what to do. It’s making me really angry.

What are Massachusetts State Troopers doing sitting on the side of the road without lasering/radaring? by Q: I drive on Route 2 from Cambridge, MA and drive all the way to Amherst, MA very often. I have a radar detector (Beltronics V955) and it has caught many other cops. Occasionally on route 2, I will drive by a state trooper who is parked in the emergency lane, but my radar detector doesn't go off. He is not lasering because he is facing forward and not perpendicular to the oncoming traffic. What is he doing just sitting in there?

What does my dream mean? by Q: There were three parts First part: Me & my boyfriend were sitting in a building place waiting randomly seeing this one boy we used to know. [i just recently saw him 2 days ago.] He was planning on meeting us there supposedly but we ha dno clue. Then it changes to we are in the car with the boy, we are in the back & he is driving. We are in a parking lot, he see's this perosn that me & my boyfriend do not see he says we have to get out of here or we're gunna get shot, we try an drive away, but i'm pretty sure we die. It just went black after that. Second part: I was at my cousins house. Me, & my two cousins take out the trash. Then me & my girl cousin go & walk her dog. While we're walking we see a fat man, who's has this bowl that's on fire, he drops it in this thing & the bowl shatters into glass, then we here bang that's coming behind us & then it goes black again, i think we died again. Third part: I'm asleep, & i feel this warm breathing behind my neck. I wake up, then i fall asleep again i feel the breathing behind my neck & it saying "it's me." It's me." i wake up [ in my dream ] kinda scared, then i go back to sleep & it happens again, but i can't remember what the voice says a third time. I wake up the next day tellin my mom i think my room is haunted & i don't wanna sleep in there & if i can sleep in here room, she let's me. Then i here like a watery sound & she says he's coming, he always comes, it always happens, she's scared tries to call 911 but the phone cords go out, i see a blonde hair blue eye'd guy [ never seen before ] he waves at me on his bike he goes up to the window get off his bike, take's his gun out my mother tries to run i was going to run at first, but i decided not to, i just stood there accepting i was gunna die, i get shot in the temple, i fall, everything goes black,i feel at peace, i feel happy. I feel happy that i finally died. [ my dreams usually contain me dying or someone dying or something violent/ & or scary. Ever sinc ei was little.] I feel like the guy in my dream was like some type of symbol of all the bad things that have happened to me. & when my mom says it always happens, i feel like she's telling me i can't escape it. No matter what life i'm in i always will carry the burden of my past. I remember what the vocie says it says i'm the one. I'm the one" That is also the reason why i think the man on the bike has to do with something, i believe he is the voice.

Could I have gotten in trouble for saying this to a police officer? ? by Q: My friends and I were hanging around our neighborhoods public playground just waiting for another friend of ours to meet us and this cop was driving by and stopped to get out and talk to us. He said "what are u guys doing?" and I said "oh. Just waiting for a friend of ours to meet us". He already looked pissed and said "well look you need to wait somewhere else ok?". I said nicely "officer are we doing anything wrong?". And he said " don't you talk back to me, you need to get the hell outta here do you understand?" . My friends were silent and I just said " alright let's go, before Mr. Big Boy Badge takes not only our freedoms but our lunch money too ". He was about to pop and i was so scared he would like arrest me but we walked away and he started at us like we were terrorists! And were not ignorant skaters or drugged out douche bags were just normal 17 year olds. We were only at the park for like 10-15 minutes and no one was there, it was like 6pm. By the way I am an honors student and going to college soon and never got in trouble with the law, and usually i would keep my mouth shut but i was having a bad day.

Why are women allowed to get away with crazy behavior that would put a man in prison? by Q: Examples I observed in last one week: There was this woman at a shopping mall parking lot. She was attractive, well-groomed and carried this air of arrogance. OK she couldn't parallel park her SUV so a couple of security guards offered to lend a helping hand. It's their job after all. She refused to hand them over the keys saying she doesn't allow anyone to touch her car. FINE, in that case either you learn to park it correctly or GTFO from there. You're not allowed to inconvenience other car-owners! When the security people persisted for a while more (they were being very polite and respectful), the woman suddenly went batsh!t crazy, started crying and yellng at them in a high-pitched voice and even hit one of the guards with her purse. The guards simply were, "Ma'am, please calm down...it's OK". Finally, the woman had her way and the guards agreed not to touch her car or disturb her again. She triumphantly rode from the scene bending two men to her will. I assure you if it were a man doing even 1/10th of the crazy sh!t what this woman did, he would be in prison for sure. She had been continuously badgering the pop corn attendant for more refills. The limit was maximum three which she had obviously reached. The pop corn attendant (another male, probably a college student) polite requested her not to ask for any more refills. The woman was getting aggro, loudly demanding he was entitled to have as much as she wanted to. The poor attendant took a small tub and gave her copious amount of pop corn. At this, the crazy woman demanded a larger tub. The boy didn't want to argue and just did as he were told. He mad a small mistake though, politely telling the lady, "Ma'am, you can't have anymore after this unless you pay." This suddenly through the woman into a rage and she emptied the entire carton on the attendant's face. It was a broad daylight assault. It took six people including the woman's husband to calm her down. The security guards were having a giggle while the pop corn man looked flushed with embarrassment. The woman did calm down eventually and was escorted outside politely. Again, had this been a man doing the same?

Baby itch and I want it to go away, why do I even want a 3rd? by Q: I have a 2 year old daughter and a 5 month old son. I am only 20.. I am on the depo shot so I am protected. I just don't understand it. I mean I have my hands FULL, but they just grow up so fast and well my pregnancys have always been a walk in the park. I just know I wont have a 3rd till I have finished college and beauty school, live in a house instead of an appartment, and my kids are older.. just don't know why I see mother's tht are pregnant and wish it was me.

A: Probably because your pregnancies were "a walk in the park." I hated being pregnant. But it's still kind of magical thinking about that life that's growing inside of you and how that little bundle of cells will turn out to look like in a few months. It's a good thing you're planning on waiting until you have more resources. I would wait until your five month old is at least 2. I'm 20 as well and I just had my first baby 6 weeks ago, and I don't plan on having any more for a while either.

What should I do with the kids I babysit? (with difficult parents)? by Q: I babysit for a 9 year old girl and 7 year old boy Monday-Friday 9AM-5PM. The parents are pretty strict and I'm put in a difficult position because the kids think everything is boring. -The parents DO NOT allow TV, video games, board games, legos, or crafts -The parents want me to get them out of the house as much as possible -It has to be something free because the parents won't leave any money and I don't want to pay for them out of my own pocket -The kids hate forest preserves and playing at the park Suggestions would be much appreciated thanks!!

Sold my car and they still owe me $1200 and I owe them title, HELP!? by Q: Okay, so I sold my VW Beetle Turbo 1.8 for $6,200.00 They paid me $5,000.00 up front and still owe me another $1,200.00. The deal was (as wrote and signed on paper by me, my husband, and the buyer) when the title comes in the mail we will exchange the title for the $1,200.00. The car ran just FINE when I was driving it every day to work. She says she had to put money into the vehicle, so she's not paying me anymore money and she just expects me to give her the title. We specifically SIGNED and DATED on a piece of paper an agreement that says we will exchange the title for the $1,200.00 She test drove the car twice, and we waited for her to leave the parking lot we met in before we left. I even negotiated with her we would take only half the $1200 that they still owe us. She said no. A week and a half later now, we told her to either meet up with us to exchange the title for the rest of our money, or we are going to take legal action. She told me "We don't want the car anymore, the only thing we are meeting up to exchange is the money that we already paid for the car" Well, the day she wrote us the check for $5000, we had deposited it right away to PAY THE CAR OFF so we could receive the title to give to them. We have NO way to retrieve the money, the car was paid off the day they wrote the $5000.00 check and they knew that. So there's no way I can just go get my car and give them $5000.00 back. I even tried to be nice and say I'd accept just $1000, instead of $1200 like agreed... and she said NO. Then I asked if we could at least meet back up to get my plates off the car, and she told me NO, she wasn't meeting up with me because she didn't "want" to. So I called the police and they went and got the plates from her. She told the police officer she couldn't meet up because her child was "sick".. not sure what the real reason was, but I do know she didn't want to give me my plates. And I do know for next time to make sure I have all the money up front before handing the car over but the title took time to come in the mail, so we agreed we'd accept $5,000.00 JUST until title came. I filed today for small claims. It costed $170... What does it sound like is going to happen? Does it sound like I will get my money? what could the judge say? Ah, I'm so confused...

I'm in love with my best friend? by Q: I've known my friend Maggie since we were three and we've always been close. We do everything together and she's always there for me. We always hang out, no matter what. Even when she hangs out with her boyfriend, she'll always find time for me too. We were hanging out at the park the other day and I realized that she's the only friend I've had that was always there for me and that didn't talk shit about me behind my back. She helps me out with anything if I need her too, even if she doesn't know how to help. She's the only person who can make me laugh when I'm sad. She lets me borrow her stuff all the time and she's even given me a few dresses of hers that were very beautiful and very expensive. She gets me flowers and candy on Valentine's Day and she always gets me lots of presents on my birthday. Every Christmas she gets me a diamond necklace and a ring to match, or a velvet dress. She has no problem with me sleeping in her bed with her or cuddling with her. She was my first kiss. She took me to prom, even though she can't stand prom and she brought me a nice red dress to match hers. She cooks for me and sings me to sleep sometimes. She was over my house once and it was late so she had to leave, and I had fallen asleep early but when I woke up she was right beside me, she never left. One night, like a dumb ass, I tried to have sex with her. She thought I was just kidding, until I tried to take off her jeans, then she said "Don't do that...just don't." and she left. I cried for the rest of the night. I guess she knew I was crying because the next day there was a stuffed kitten on my bed and a piece of paper that said "Sorry." She's got a boyfriend and they're seriously in love. If I see her with her boyfriend I'll say hi and she'll smile and wave. I always get mad when her boyfriend's around. She's kissed me on the cheek before, in front of her boyfriend and he didn't mind. She likes boys and girls,so do you think she loves me too? And should I tell her that I'm in love with her?

2009 vibe grinding noise? by Q: I bought a car about a month ago, Since then they've replace both half shafts, breaks and rotors, and the alternator, While I was in drive yesterday with my foot on the break I noticed it was making a LOUD grinding noise under the hood, When I put it in park it doesn't do it ( unless the AC in on) It does it while I drive also. Any ideas of what this is? The car is under factory warranty, (drivetrain) but to get a diagnostic they want to charge me $100 alone. Any ideas would be helpful! Thanks

help with my story? ten points!? by Q: how do i end it? what should i add or take out? is this just the beginning of my story? what can i change? i met olivia the day she moved in the house next to mine. i was 6 and she was 5. she's always been very skinny with long curly dark hair and glasses. i've always had brown hair, i've always been tall and good-looking. olivia and i used to play together and were best buds until we reached junior high. we drifted apart because of the people we turned out to be. i ended up being in the popular group due to my good-looks and ability to be so good at football. olivia was more about learning, getting good grades and being so sweet to everyone. she had few friends because she was always more mature then the rest of the kids our age. anyways, we went three years without talking even though we live right next to each other. it was finally our senior year of high school and we had our first class together. it was english and i was never good at that class. our teachers assigned us at partners and it was the first time we had talked in years. it was nice to finally talk again, it really was. the next few days was going really good. she was helping me out a lot in english and we caught up with each other about our lives. we studied in the park together once and had a blast with it. the next day at school, the hot girl the was at school invited me to go to her house that weekend because her parents were going to be gone. she told me that it would be a "fun" night and that we'd be alone. my mom told me about how someone broke into the house down the street and that i needed to lock things up. and be careful. it was thursday and olivia and i went to the park again and we both really wanted to see a movie that was playing a tthe theater. i talked her into seeing it because she never did anything but study and she ended up having a blast and thanking me. the next day was the prsentation in our english class and we nailed it. we got an A. i picked her up and hugging her and we jumped up and down in excitement together. i got home after school and was getting ready for my night with crystal. it was getting dark and out of no where, olivia knocked on my door. she asked to take a walk with me so we went behind our house and into the beautiful forest. we walked the path to the pond we used to play in. we were there and she grabbed my hand and told me that she was in love with me. she actually spilled her heart out to me. i was shocked. i told her that we were too different. i was really popular and she was all about her grades and being mature. it just wouldn't work. she sat down on the grass and tears ran down her face. she told me that she didn't care if we were different and that she loves me for who i am. i said it just wouldn't work and i walked away. i left her hanging and i didn't know how i felt about everything. i got into my truck and drove to crystal's house. she had a slutty outfit on and cranked up the party music even though it was just us. she began dancing on me and touching me. she grabbed my hand and took me to her room. i kissed her and she took my shirt off. i laid on her bed while she sat above me, kissing my neck. all i could think about was olivia and how beautiful and smart she was. i kept thinking about how she is in love with me for me and not my populatirty. i pushed crystal off and told her i couldn't do it and ran out to my truck.

advice/opinions and help with my story? by Q: how do i end it? is this just the beginning of my story? what should i add or take out? i met olivia the day she moved in the house next to mine. i was 6 and she was 5. she's always been very skinny with long curly dark hair and glasses. i've always had brown hair, i've always been tall and good-looking. olivia and i used to play together and were best buds until we reached junior high. we drifted apart because of the people we turned out to be. i ended up being in the popular group due to my good-looks and ability to be so good at football. olivia was more about learning, getting good grades and being so sweet to everyone. she had few friends because she was always more mature then the rest of the kids our age. anyways, we went three years without talking even though we live right next to each other. it was finally our senior year of high school and we had our first class together. it was english and i was never good at that class. our teachers assigned us at partners and it was the first time we had talked in years. it was nice to finally talk again, it really was. the next few days was going really good. she was helping me out a lot in english and we caught up with each other about our lives. we studied in the park together once and had a blast with it. the next day at school, the hot girl the was at school invited me to go to her house that weekend because her parents were going to be gone. she told me that it would be a "fun" night and that we'd be alone. my mom told me about how someone broke into the house down the street and that i needed to lock things up. and be careful. it was thursday and olivia and i went to the park again and we both really wanted to see a movie that was playing a tthe theater. i talked her into seeing it because she never did anything but study and she ended up having a blast and thanking me. the next day was the prsentation in our english class and we nailed it. we got an A. i picked her up and hugging her and we jumped up and down in excitement together. i got home after school and was getting ready for my night with crystal. it was getting dark and out of no where, olivia knocked on my door. she asked to take a walk with me so we went behind our house and into the beautiful forest. we walked the path to the pond we used to play in. we were there and she grabbed my hand and told me that she was in love with me. she actually spilled her heart out to me. i was shocked. i told her that we were too different. i was really popular and she was all about her grades and being mature. it just wouldn't work. she sat down on the grass and tears ran down her face. she told me that she didn't care if we were different and that she loves me for who i am. i said it just wouldn't work and i walked away. i left her hanging and i didn't know how i felt about everything. i got into my truck and drove to crystal's house. she had a slutty outfit on and cranked up the party music even though it was just us. she began dancing on me and touching me. she grabbed my hand and took me to her room. i kissed her and she took my shirt off. i laid on her bed while she sat above me, kissing my neck. all i could think about was olivia and how beautiful and smart she was. i kept thinking about how she is in love with me for me and not my populatirty. i pushed crystal off and told her i couldn't do it and ran out to my truck.

I'm gay and I'm in love with a straight friend? by Q: It's a little bit long but please help! I met him two years and a half ago, we go to the same school in the same bus and I've always liked him!!! I first liked him because he is really cute but now that I know him better, I like him even more, I'm in love with him. We are not really close but there are some things that makes me think that he likes me When I had a blackberry, I had him as a contact in my pin and he used to put the exactly initials of my name and a heart as his status (not saying that it was for me, it could have been just a coincidence) we used to talk once in a while but now that i have an iPhone we don't really chat and i think it'd be a little bit obvious if i ask him to download whatsapp just so we can talk. Almost all the time that I'm at the bus, he stares at me and smiles (I get really intimidated by him). When we sit in the same seat, he always start the conversation and sometimes he put his hand on my leg (just for a little while) but that's common anyways. One day we were going out of math class and there was like a big crowd, I wanted to know who was behind me and when I turned my head, I saw him grabbing my ass and he just said "hmm sorry.." I said "it's ok" but I think that my voice didn't even come out lol. when we are on a same class, I can't stop looking at him and he looks at me too so when he looks at me, I just turn my head and pretend like I was looking at something else. When he talks to me, he talks quietly and sweeter lol Sometimes when I go to the mall, park, the movies... I think how great would it be to meet with him and suddenly I see him and we look at each other, or say hi and that stuff but we don't actually talk. I love all about him, his personality, look, the way he talk... I think he doesn't know that I'm gay, not even my parents do, there are just few people who know it I don't know what should I do. I'm afraid of telling him what I feel because maybe he is not gay or maybe he doesn't take it good and tell everybody that I'm gay and I wouldn't like that to happen :/ I don't know if this is important but I'm 16 and he is 17

I was driving my sisters car, and received a parking ticket, can i pay it? by jenny Q: so my sister let me use her car, i went to the beach and parked in a metered spot. the time in the meter ran out, and by the time i went back to put more coins in it, i'd received a parking violation. i fully plan on paying it, ($58.00) but if i send it by mail, is it okay if i send one of my checks, when my name isn't the one under the car? also, i feel horrible about it, is this going to be on her record? is that really bad? i'm just wondering what happens when you get a parking ticket, if you get another do you have to go back to driving school or something?

How do I fight a wrongful simple possession charge? by Sarah Elizabeth Q: A couple of weeks ago I was in the car with two friends. I was NOT the driver, I was in the passenger seat. We were driving around when we stopped at a nearby gas station for few minutes and then left. As we were driving, not doing anything wrong, we noticed an officer following us. To figure out if it was true, we drove around aimlessly for a little bit before we determined they were following us and we stopped at our friend's house. Two police cars pulled up and they asked to speak with us. They ID'd everybody and asked if they could search the driver's car. He asked why, and they said "suspicion". They claimed to have seen one of us breaking down a cigarillo in the parking lot. They searched all 3 of us and didn't find any cigarillos, nor did they find anything in the car. The officer said he didn't find anything then asked to search a second time, upon which he realized the glove compartment box was locked. He then claimed to "smell" marijuana and asked the driver to open it. He apparently lied when he said No, it was his parent's car and he doesn't know why they keep it locked. The officer took him aside and talked to him and I guess he permitted the officer to look inside and I HAD NO IDEA there were two bags of weed inside. The officer took us aside individually and the way he was talking made him sound like he wanted me to rat one of the others out. As I didn't know who it belonged to and it wasn't mine, I neither confessed nor said whose it was - I didn't know. He sugar coated it a little bit by saying he didn't think it was mine, which I supposed might've helped me in court later on. But nobody confessed to owning the two bags and thus we were all cited with Simple Possesion of Marijuana. It was not detailed how much marijuana but my friends say it was around 8 grams split. As minors, they both went to court only days later and CONFESSED to owning either bag. They were issued later court dates and drug tested, receiving either probation or a fine or whatever. I don't know. I, however, received a much later court date at which I explained that I didn't know it was in the car and I KNOW it didn't help that I was in the passenger seat but I was honest. I had no idea. The judge told me that because I was 19 I was liable for some kind of charge and when I asked for a court appointed lawyer/attorney he said NO. I'm unemployed and can't afford one. Either way, the two bags in the car were claimed and that leaves me with a liability charge? I can't afford a lawyer and they've already refused me once. I have no record. I have no money. I didn't commit any crime knowingly. What can I do?

Why do employees put up chains in amusement parks? by Q: I noticed every time a ride operator at an amusement park lets people go through to get on the ride, when there’s enough people on the ride, he/she would lock the chain and the person in the front of the line would have to deal with standing in front of the chain and not being able to walk anymore further to the ride. Why do they have to have a chain? Why can’t he just tell people to wait? Anybody can climb over the chain or sneak under it so what is the point of having a chain that closes in a amusement park or even at a waterslide park? There’s this stupid chain that prevents people from going ahead until the lifeguard/ride operator uses their hand to open it!

Has anyone ever had this happen? by Q: I care for a 4 year old boy. I have cared for him a constant basis since he was 1 year old. We are very close. he even likes me better than his family. His uncle, his grandma, grandpa (at least that's what his mom said). Sometimes I have a feeling that he's closer to me than he is with his mom (he barely hugs, and kisses her, yet he's always hanging on me, giving me hugs and kisses which bothers me cause he should be doing that to her maybe it's because she's always gone and works a lot; who knows). Needless to say I am always over at the house. I have my own room, and there have been times when he's came in and hopped in bed with me during a thunderstorm. When he the weather is nice we go for walks to the park, out to eat, out shopping, out on a walk with the dog etc and people mistake me for the mother. I actually had one man comment and say "it's nice to see a good quality mother, one who keeps the kids in line, is concerned with their whereabouts, teaches them to look both ways and not to go near the road, you're doing a good job". He thought I was the boys mother, while on our walk I had him hold my hand or hold on to the doggy leash when crossing the street, not sure if that's why but I didn't know how to comment to that one, it shocked me. Is that normal? Would that indicate that the boy and I are close like a mother/child closeness? Does that happen often? Just wondering would that also classify me as a nanny? I live her part time but, the family is talking about making it permanent. I cook all his meals (and I make sure their nutritional balanced), I am the one who first helped him learn to brush his teeth by himself, dress himself, I am gradually helping him learn to tie his shoes. He's learning how to bathe himself, I am helping learn how to read and gradually learn how to write. like I said we go for walks (we go everywhere together) sometimes we have picnics in the park with the dog. The mom is a single mom so, I don't get paid much because she can't afford much (I don't care though, I don't do it for the money). I do light housework (laundry, dishes, dusting and I tend to the garden). Would that qualify me as a nanny? My girlfriend used to be one and she said that's what I am right now. Because I do so much more than a babysitter does. I have even care for him when he was very sick and I helped the fever go away with what I learned from my Grandma (she was a RN 60 years and she taught me some basics that she knew). Would you call me a babysitter or a nanny?

Is the first chapter of this story nice? *STORY INCLUDED*? by Q: Mistreated Chapter 1: It was a sunny day in the summer of '94. I sat wedged between the blueberry bush and the apple tree with an ice cube numbing my tongue. Like magic, a fly appeared out of thin air and came buzzing around my ear and resting on my lip, which was very irritating, and right at that moment I remembered a technique that my grandpa taught me, which was tying a thin piece of string around the fly and it will follow me everywhere just like a balloon. Just as I skillfully caught the fly and started tying it with a piece of string from my worn hat, Fazita came out of the front porch. As I lost my concentration, the fly ran away. "Anissa , I'm going to have my break now, if you need anything you know where to find me, that is at Joseph's, okay?" "I get it!" I replied, frustrated that I lost my prey, but happy that someone actually gives me attention and cares for me, because my mom died when I was born, and my dad has been going to rehab for addiction to alcoholic drinks. The men in fancy suits said that if I wasn't taken care for in a manner that is well for a child of 9, then they will take me away. Thinking of my dad and his addiction, his Cadillac was being parked outside in front of the porch. "Daddy, how was your day?" I answered as sweetly as possible when he clumsily entered the house. Then I realized from the stench that is coming from his mouth that he has been drinking. He mumbled something I couldn't understand, so I repeated the question again, more firmly this time. "How was your day?!" "Why do you want to know?! You little brat!" was his reply. I then decided to ignore him and ask him in my most maternally voice, "Have you been drinking? Yes or no?" He then got up and came nearer and nearer towards me, and with every step he made, the more in danger I felt, so at that moment my legs started running as fast as they could in any direction, but just far away from him, without my mind even thinking about it! As I fled I heard him shout, "Never come back and show me your face, you little rascal! Having you was all a mistake! If you were not here, your mother will still be here!" ... and a lot of other stuff that I couldn't hear because I was too far away. Right at that moment I decided to go to Joseph's to find Fazita, my faithful nanny and confident. After I told her what happened, she started talking Spanish, which I think were swears, but I wasn't too sure. After I saw her face, I forgot all the worries in life, because just that one motherly look filled with kindness and love made me feel warm inside and out. With a determined expression, she said that I will come and stay at her house while my father over-looks his mistakes and realizes that he is wrong in saying all that rubbish that came out of his mouth. Plz tell me your opinions and also plz rate it from 1-10 :) thnx

A: Well I'm not going to rate because it does need quite a bit of work. First, you never want to start with a mention of the weather, especially in the first sentence. 'It was' generally doesn't make for a good hook, which is what you want when you start. Flies tend to be everywhere in the summer, so I'm not sure why that would be considered a magical thing - and they are nearly impossible to catch. Then 'ran away' gives a rather odd mental picture since flies don't actually run. Sorry to say it doesn't grab me, but keep working on it and just think of a more involving beginning that will make the reader care what happens to the character. Good luck!

what can I do in skate 3 after I beat the story? by Q: I love skate 3, but I completed EVERY challenge (killed it if i could). But it doesn't look like you can create a second character, there's no leveling up in multiplayer, all I really can do is create parks but after I create them I just skate them there's nothing to accomplish, should I just get skate 2, or is there anything else to do?

Is it a myth that gangs of 4 men drive around in vans, looking to steal Harleys? by Q: I've heard that gangs of 4 men drive around in vans, looking to steal Harleys, and when they find one, say in a parking lot, the 4 men hop out of the van and simply lift the Harley into the back of the van. I often think about that when I leave my '98 Dyna Convertible in a parking lot. I always lock the steering, but I don't have a motion alarm.

WHAT THE HELL DOES SHE WANT? by Q: After we broke up I used to still hang out with her alot, but I haven't really been doing so lately and We've been saying we miss each other. She's been saying she feels like I''m too busy for her lately and I've been talking to someone else alot lately. But I hung out with her earlier today and we were hugged up together in the park but nothing really happened I gave her a kis on the cheek before I left her and that was it. I guess because the other girl post on my wall alot she saw it, and made a post sublimally saying "Oh that's why you dont have time for me anymore....Cool". I texted her and confronted her about it and she says she feels I'm distant now so I explained to her that I still love her but I can't keep hurting myself trying to get her back. Then she says "I don't wanna lose you I do love you but idk if we can be friends" I was going out so I said " Ima talk to you later" and She responded "I love you, & I didn't mean to ruin your night" I GUESS MY QUESTION IS WHAT DOES SHE WANT?? P.S: I DO LOVE HER BUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION IS STRESSFUL I MEAN SHE BROKE UP WITH ME

Is it ok that I can't forgive and forget.? by Q: I took my cousin to an interview yesterday, it was very important to her. Hours before she and her husband got into a huge fight. When it was done he showed up as we were walking out. He was like "you could go to the car" very mean and nasty. It was dark, I waited. She left in his car. I called because the key Elijah the ignition wouldn't go forward, he asked where I was I told him I didn't know (huge parking lot) basically he was saying things like I was stupid etc: she forgave him, said he said he was out of control and is seeking help. I am hurt, cause when I was younger people would take there anger out on me. I can't forgive and forget this.

Things to do in Disney Land/Anaheim area? by Q: My mom offered a while ago for my birthday we could go to a theme park- Disney land (ca) for my birthday which is in The time frame of there halloween stuff at the park. I shot it down when she asked like months and months ago. We always go to California and I haven't gone in a while and we arent going this summer for the first time in a long time! So I'm sad and yeah. I was thinking of proposing this idea again- I have a long weekend 2 days after my bday so I was thinking of going day before my bday then spending my bday at the park and doing the birthday thing they offer and such. But then we would have a few days left there *I would say fly out on 24th[WED] and fly back 28th ish[SUN] to try to avoid missing alot of school as Its highschool.. What are some other things to do in Anaheim area? I go to Cali alot so I've done all the amusement parks, seem Hollywood and the stuff around there. Any ideas? 15 year old girl here if that helps.

Neighbors parks a little over the line separating our driveways; what can I do? by Q: So I have my own driveway and my neighbor has his own too; these driveways are parallel. However, lately he has been parking his car so that it lies slightly over the boundary line between our driveways. I would like to park my car all the way into the driveway, (right up to my backyard gate) so that guests coming over can park in my driveway too, but it is very hard to do so when my neighbor has a bit of his car in my driveway. With the little bit of his car in my driveway (he likes to park in the back of the driveway too), it's dangerous for me to park next to him, as we can scrape our cars against each other. I have asked him to stop parking over the line but he still does it. I have also talked to the neighborhood policeman about this problem, and he has asked the neighbor to stop doing it, but the neighbor isn't listening. I also suspect the policeman and my neighbor are friends, which could be a problem? So I really don't know what to do about this problem. I would love to be able to park all the way back in my driveway, but I am unable to do so. If anybody could offer advice on what to do, I would greatly appreciate it. ^^; Edit: Forgot to mention that I tried blocking his car from crossing the boundary line by placing a wood board on my side, close to the line to give him a little hint. He promptly threw it away and went right back to parking over the line. (about 5-14 inches on any day) D: Edit: Miranda, your answer is very helpful. :) However, is it illegal for me to place a wall of cement blocks? What if he claims it obstructs him from getting out of his car and possibly damages it or him? He threw the wood board away and claimed he did so because it was obstructing him and posed possible harm... Also, is it illegal for him to be parking over the line? From what I've read online, the law on parking seems to be a little murky. x.x Edit xD: I am actually considering possibly putting a fence up if the other options fail. :) But I really hope this can be resolved easily. v.v

Does this sound like the worst child ever or no? by PW Q: My 14 year old cousin was diagnosed with ADHD a few years ago and needed to be put on medication. He also has issues regarding impulse control and often has problems controlling his anger, often leading to temper tantrums or violent outbursts. I believe that may have to do with his mother not being in his life, she and his father got a divorce a couple of years ago taking sole legal custody of his sister, both living a few states away from him.  My uncle had invited me, my brother, and my son to go to Six Flags for the day. My cousin was doing fine the first two hours, enjoying the rides, laughing, just having a good time. The problem started when he wanted an airbrushed t-shirt at the stand but since most of the money was already spent on the park alone (parking, entrance fees, rides) and both of our money was starting to go a bit low, we just simply couldn't afford to buy him an airbrushed shirt because we needed the money for food back home and if we brought him an airbrushed shirt, we can't afford to buy the food at the park, leaving us to starve for the rest of the trip and I didn't want my 4 year old son to spend the rest of the day hungry. So we decided on not buying my cousin the shirt for that reason, and he started getting upset, insisting that my son can handle the day hungry and that we should've brought the food with us on the trip to feed my son (even though the park stated not to bring any food or drinks inside). So my uncle told him that maybe he can buy the shirt next year and my cousin said no loudly and cursed his dad out insisting that he wanted the shirt now and not next year. My uncle had to pull him aside to explain the whole situation which seemed to calm him down for a bit.   So my family went to a cafe and we were in the line ordering food when I seemed to notice my cousin got very quiet which we all ignored at first figuring that he calmed down. Then while we were eating, his face got red and tears started to pour from his eyes, and we all tried to ask him what's wrong, he didn't respond. Even my son tried asking him why was he crying, which he didn't respond either. Eventually after 20 minutes of non-stop asking, he responded that he wanted the airbrushed t-shirt and started sobbing hiding his face in his shirt. My uncle got upset and explained to him the situation again and added that this is the last time it will be discussed and it won't be explained again. My cousin yelled that this was bullshet and banged the table so hard that people from the cafe looked at him, and my son started to cry, because the sound scared him so I had to calm my son down while my brother and my uncle both took my cousin to another ride to calm him down.   Well I guess that didn't work out because shortly after we were done with the ride my brother and my uncle came back with my cousin who was very angry walking around punching every object near him, attracting many stares from other people and scaring young children. It turns out that my cousin still wasn't calm about the whole t-shirt situation and on the ride my brother, my cousin and his dad went to, he was shouting, cursing, and kicking the seat so hard that he made a dent on it. So we both agreed on leaving the park now since my cousin is starting to get out of control.   He didn't want to leave, he insisted he was calm and that he would be fine for the rest of the day. We didn't agree because he already had a few chances to calm down and he didn't, and he sure was not likely to calm down for the rest of the day. My uncle grabbed on to his arm, snarling through his teeth to leave right now. My cousin shouted again and cursed at his dad, calling him a huge motherfckr which resulted in my uncle slapping him in the face screaming at him to not ever talk to him like that again. Well my cousin got hysterical and started screaming and crying on the floor and we were so embarrassed we walked away from him. My cousin got up and ran towards us and pushed my uncle almost making him fall. My uncle slapped him again and my cousin again went into hysterics and fell on the floor kicking his feet and banging his arms shouting that he doesn't want to leave. His outburst was so bad that my brother and my uncle each had to grab my cousin by the arm and lift him to the car with his legs dragging on the ground. Mind you my cousin is 5'8 and weighs about 200lbs. My son found his outburst hilarious the entire time while my face was red full of embarrassment.   Then we got to my uncle's car and we couldn't drive until my cousin calmed down. My cousin was given medication and was put in a bearhug restraint for 10 minutes until he calmed down, but he was still crying the entire ride home. Let's just say it was a horrible day for everybody. Does he sound like a bad kid or no?

When a guy used to like boys is he still gay and in the closet? by Q: Well I was sad and he said whats the matter and I replied nothing.He sad are you in love?I said No.You like girls?yeas.Or you like boys?Noo ha ha.Its ok I used to like boys to he said in a funny way laughing and the girl sitting with us said to him that I doubt you still like boys.Well I don't think homosexuality is a matter of choise because you are born like this you don't become gay ore straight.I am madly in love with this scorpio guy and I think he knows something but is really shy and ackward when i ask him out for a beer or sports and specialy when we are alone.Sometimes he gives me a stare and i get the so called gay vibes and he tickles with me and says I am so cute but as a funny joke.We have a saying in my country that a joke is half true sometimes.He pretend he like girls and all of them looks like barbie girls and he uses to date them and immediately breaks up with them and is very mean with them for now his status is single and works as a super model in a fashion magazine.And I get some gay vibes from him is it true?Do they work? He is a scorpio sign and gives me some stares but sometimes avoids me and gets excuses not to come when i ask him out for a coffee or a run in the park for exercising only if we are with other friends but not when we are alone he doesn't talk to much with me alone but alone with others guys yeas. We are both 19 in college.I text him a lot and chat on facebook but I always make the first move.For more details about this guy read my other questions please......:) Additional Details He is funny and outgoing all the time and he is very hot sometimes quiet.Most of the jokes he tells are with gay guys and insults them in a funny way. He calls me gay sometimes and than he laughs he always picks on me mercingly.This is the way he is. He used to be very homophobic but not any more now he is more tolerant and Says that I didn't know that gay guys are so good guys and the most powerfull people on earth such as The Alexander the great for example. read my full story here: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmHlM43_9_AzJzuoFG2y.CTty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20120704051703AANz2ry

Can you have an airsoft gun at a public park in Vancouver, WA? by Q: My friends and I make movies and we need to use a local park in our area. We are going to shoot a zombie movie, so we need to have guns and stuff for that. Now the park rules say "no firearms," but I don't know if that would apply. Could we just post some signs warning people we have fake guns, or what?

A: yea it should not be a problem, but you should be aware of some safety issues http://www.airsplat.com/airsoft-safety.htm hope that helps.

There might be hidden drugs in the back of my house can I call 911 to send a police drug dog to search? by geoxcountry06 Q: My property is shared with another house, the drive way leads all the way up to the wall behind our houses. My property is shaped as a huge square with pavement covered to form a T making up the driveway which both our houses share, the houses are to the left and right seperated by the driveway and a front lawn for both houses separated by the driveway as well. We have no fence to block the driveway leading to the back so anyone can just walk as they wish if they wanted to and possibly store stuff back there. We use the back as storage and parking our cars.Again the back just has pavement and no grass. No cars were parked in the driveway and today my neighbor saw a car with a man outside his car who was parked in our driveway all the way in the back near the trash cans where there is dirt as if he was snooping around. My neighbor got back from work around 8 o'clock at night and couldn't park her car so she stopped half way and backed up to let the car out of the driveway and she assumed this guy was someone my family knew who came to visit so she didn't think too much of it. She went to ask my mom who that was since she never saw him before and he was a white guy (no offense) and we are Mexican. We told her that we didn't know anyone like that and this isn't the first time its happened. Its happened a lot of times that random people snoop in the back of our homes so I'm worried that they might be using our property to store drugs or something and having others pick them up from our place. There was another other case where two guys around the age of 18 or so were walking into the back of our house and as they reached the back of the house my dad came out and saw them and asked them what they were doing there and they just ignored my dad and walked out of our property. So my question is, is it possible to have the cops bring in a dog to search for drugs in our property and would we be held liable for them if there is any since it is in our property.

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